Ways To Pick Up Ladies - Confusing Indications And Flirting

When we are talking about the subject of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do to be able to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".

I not long ago got asked the question: "Why do females flirt with you and when you flirt back they push it away? It's so puzzling!!!" I thought it was interesting and important enough to share.

First of all, women have different qualities. What is being described here is a kind of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that typically does this kind of behavior is a little unstable. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to jump in.

The best way to handle this personality type is when you find it is not to react, not to take the bait so to talk. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her manage how the relationship goes. If you don't react, she will get close to you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run away.

Difficulty is, however, people with similar or compatible personalities often hang out together. So sometimes you can get the feeling that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be merely a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go to some other place, meet different people in different situations and perhaps you will find out different personality types and perhaps one that is more suitable for you.

Now having said that, let's look at it from a different perspective. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Girls will flirt to see if they get a reaction, to find if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not serious about a man. They will flirt with a guy they are only thinking about being friends with.

One way to get better control of these situations is to observe all the communication channels that a woman is making use of to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.

When a woman likes you she will certainly communicate that she likes you across all of the communications channels. When she is just playing around she will give you mixed communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not support the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.

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